Without reservations : the travels of an independent woman

by Alice Steinbach

Paper Book, 2000

Status

Available

Call number

818/.5403B

Publication

New York : Random House, c2000.

Description

Paris Dear Alice, Each morning I am awakened by the sound of a tinkling bell. A cheerful sound, it reminds me of the bells that shopkeepers attach to their doors at Christmastime. In this case, the bell marks the opening of the hotel door. From my room, which is just off the winding staircase, I can hear it clearly. It reminds me of the bell that calls to worship the novice embarking on a new life. In a way I too am a novice, leaving, temporarily, one life for another. Love, Alice In the tradition of Anne Morrow Lindbergh's Gift from the Sea and Frances Mayes's Under the Tuscan Sun, in Without Reservations we take time off with Pulitzer Prize winner Alice Steinbach as she explores the world and rediscovers what it means to be a woman on her own. "In many ways, I was an independent woman," writes Alice Steinbach, a single working mother, in this captivating book. "For years I'd made my own choices, paid my own bills, shoveled my own snow, and had relationships that allowed for a lot of freedom on both sides." Slowly, however, she saw that she had become quite dependent in another way: "I had fallen into the habit . . . of defining myself in terms of who I was to other people and what they expected of me." Who am I, she wanted to know, away from the things that define me--my family, children, job, friends? Steinbach searches for the answer to this provocative question in some of the most exciting places in the world: Paris, where she finds a soul mate in a Japanese man; Oxford, where she takes a course on the English village; Milan, where she befriends a young woman about to be married. Beautifully illustrated with postcards Steinbach wrote home to herself to preserve her spontaneous impressions, this revealing and witty book will transport readers instantly into a fascinating inner and outer journey, an unforgettable voyage of discovery.… (more)

User reviews

LibraryThing member cameling
This is one of the best travel memoirs I've read. Now here is a woman who, deciding to take a sabbatical from work to travel, manages not only to provide some thoughtful insight into taking life (and love) slowly and savoring the little moments, but also shares the delight she experienced, in
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meeting some people along the way, some for just a day, and some for a good portion of her stay in France, Italy, and England. I would consider it an honor if I were to chance upon Ms Steinbach at some point in my lifetime ... she is intelligent, kind, humorous, witty and yes, eventually wise. Without Reservations is a well-written travel memoir but it is it not ONLY a travel memoir, it is also a book that gently nudges the reader to pause and consider some of the very poignant and profound thoughts Ms Steinbach has been generous enough to share. This book is a definite keeper.
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LibraryThing member traczy555
The title is the first problem with this book. The author has reservations in almost all of her destinations. I imagined a book about a woman with a backpack and train pass with no specific timeline...wrong. The second problem is that she never pulls the reader in. Steinbach writes as though she
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were an observer in the experiences, not a participant. It left me feeling cold and lonely...It just wasn't good travel writing. What a disappointment.

It is possible my experience reading this book is too influenced by having just completed Eat, Pray, Love, which is beautifully written.
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LibraryThing member LisaMaria_C
I picked up this book because it was recommended on The Ultimate Reading List. The back cover called Steinback a "Pulitzer Prize-Winning" journalist, so I anticipated something special. Unfortunately, the author inspired the snarky in me right from the introduction. She said she decided to travel
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because she had dropped into "the habit of defining myself in terms of who I was to other people." Oh, so this was going to be one of those "find myself" books, was it? I'm rather suspicious of that kind of quest--I don't think we can plan self-discovery, and if and when we do it's often in challenging ourselves in some in some way--not by being tourists in comfy vacation spots in Paris, London and Milan. Travel books are interesting for two reasons. Either the traveler--and their voice, their writing--makes it interesting, or the destination does--because it's exotic to the reader or the traveler finds themselves in the midst of exciting, historic times. Neither is the case here. I found the writing, at best, undistinguished. One reviewer noted the overuse of the colon. I thought Steinbach overused the question mark--use of the rhetorical question abounded. I agreed with the reviewer who called Steinbach's metaphors and literary allusions forced. And I found the chirpy postcards she sent to herself heading the chapters--signed, "Love Alice,"--trite and cringe-worthy.

Worse, I found no particular insight into the places she went to. Except for her time in England, she didn't even know the languages, nor did she stay long enough to be more than a tourist. The one place she went to I had personally visited was England. But I didn't feel any pull or identification with her experience of London and other places I had visited. Maybe it's because she had visited before, but I didn't find reflected here all the little details that stood out and made England feel paradoxically at home and yet strange as an American. She might as well been describing my hometown of New York City. After putting down this book, I next read Conway's The Road from Coorain, the memoir of a woman who grew up on an Australian sheep farm and would go on to become the first woman president of Smith College. At one point she visited London and other parts of Europe with her mother--and here, in a memoir not focused on travel per se, in the one chapter about her visit to Europe, I found more keen observations and insights in each paragraph than I did in the whole of Steinbach's book.
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LibraryThing member lowensby
Wonderfully written nonfiction. Journey of a recently divorced mother who travels throughout Europe discovering quaint villages, and discovering herself. Many margin notes
LibraryThing member Djupstrom
Yuck!! The only good thing I got out of this book was sending postcards to myself next time I travel. Snoozefest!!
LibraryThing member readasread
A very feminine style of "reportage" writing: intimate but restrained with numerous references to beloved grandmother and mother as her memories are moved by travel experiences. She does a wonderful job of taking YOU to Paris (somewhat cashed up !) while London had familiar echoes and now up to
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Oxford. A womanly read.
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LibraryThing member brsquilt
About traveling in Italy, France and England alone. Alice meets interesting people and does an excellent job of describing the places she sees. I love that she spent a lot of time walking, discovering places in the cities she visited. Although she does not discuss it, she must have spent a great
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deal of time writing down her thoughts and experiences in order to do such an excellent job of writing this memoir.
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LibraryThing member mldg
When we reach our fifties, many of us find it is time to reassess our roles in life. Our children have reached adulthood. Marriages have either grown stronger or fallen apart. If our parents are still with us, we may be called upon to help them cope with failing health.

Alice Steinbach, a
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successful journalist and divorced mother or grown sons, decides to take a one-year sabbatical from work in order to re-evaluate her life. Despite the books name, Alice does have an itinerary for her journey; but she decides to seize opportunities as they present themselves on her trip.
Along the way she befriends many people and even finds romance in Paris. In the end, Alice gains closure in her role as daughter and acceptance in her changing relationships with her sons.
The book is a well written travelog. The author may have experienced life-changing revelations during the sabbatical, but she never fully reveals herself to the reader.
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LibraryThing member clue
It's interesting to see the reactions to this book. I fall on the positive side, I enjoyed the stories Steinbach told about her experiences in England, France and Italy and plan to read the sequel. For sure most of us would not be able to travel as she did, leaving a job and the U.S. to spend a
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year in Europe, but more the reason to read the story of someone who did. Be aware that the title does not refer to the type of travel she did, her traveling year was well planned and places she would stay were arranged in advance of living the US. Apparently she meant the title to refer to her attitude towards the adventure she undertook. This was adventure on the refined side.
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LibraryThing member Milda-TX
For-girls-only book by a 50ish writer who leaves her regular life behind to travel to England, France, and Italy for awhile, alone. Lovely writing. Never whiny like that horribly annoying Eat Pray Love chick.
LibraryThing member marient
Who was Alice away from the people and things that defined her? Steinbach searches for the answer to this question in some of the most beautiful and exciting places in the world: Paris, where she finds a soulmate;Oxford,where she takes a course on the English village; Milan, where she befriends a
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young woman about to be married. Beautifully illustrated with postcards from Steinbach's journeys, this revealing and witty book transports you into a fascinating inner and outer voyage of discovery.
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LibraryThing member dawnlovesbooks
delightful record of the author's travels to paris, london, italy, rome.... i loved every single minute of the book. the vibrant descriptions of her surroundings, the many interesting characters she meets along the way, and most of all her insights into life. she says of her sons in the prolouge,
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"i hope they see me soaring like a bright kite into a big blue sky; happy and adventurouis, going wherver the wind takes me." i certainly saw her that way. made me want to pack up and discover other countries on my own.
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LibraryThing member bikiechic
A great read! I couldn't put it down. I thoroughly enjoyed the way Steinbach observes the people she meets in her travels around Western Europe. It made me long to be there... and since I couldn't do so, she made me feel as though I was sitting right beside her, experiencing and feeling what she
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was.
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LibraryThing member mawls
Reminded me of my own travel adventures and how I want to do more!
LibraryThing member lakesidemusing
My book club discussed Without Reservations on a cold, snowy morning earlier this week. The book itself is Pulitzer Prize winning journalist Alice Steinbach's account of a year-long European sabbatical taken to discover who she really was without her career and children, but our discussion quickly
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veered toward our own travel tales and aspirations. We all mostly enjoyed the book, but questioned whether her ultimate goal for the trip was realized.

I loved Steinbach's writing, especially the postcards of personal insight and inspiration mailed home (to herself) throughout the trip. They appear at the beginning of each chapter. I hope to read her later book, Educating Alice: Adventures of a Curious Woman, sometime this year.
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LibraryThing member ava-st-claire
I loved this book! Will read it again and again. Alice makes me want to pack my bag, not for a trip but for an adventure.

Thank you Alice for your wonderful writing. I have given copies to my adventure seeking friends.

Language

Original publication date

2000-04-11

Physical description

304 p.; 24 inches

ISBN

0375501886 / 9780375501883
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