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Biography & Autobiography. Nonfiction. HTML: In the vein of The Glass Castle, Breaking Night is the stunning memoir of a young woman who at age fifteen was living on the streets, and who eventually made it into Harvard. Liz Murray was born to loving but drug-addicted parents in the Bronx. In school she was taunted for her dirty clothing and lice-infested hair, eventually skipping so many classes that she was put into a girls' home. At age fifteen, Liz found herself on the streets. She learned to scrape by, foraging for food and riding subways all night to have a warm place to sleep. When Liz's mother died of AIDS, she decided to take control of her own destiny and go back to high school, often completing her assignments in the hallways and subway stations where she slept. Liz squeezed four years of high school into two, while homeless; won a New York Times scholarship; and made it into the Ivy League. Breaking Night is an unforgettable and beautifully written story of one young woman's indomitable spirit to survive and prevail, against all odds..… (more)
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At the risk of sounding just plain corny, I have to admit this book broke through my comfortable thinking and changed my perspective of homelessness. For more years than I care to admit, I had fallen into the trap of categorizing all homeless people into a group of those feeling somehow entitled to handouts and expecting to live off others.
There is now a major crack in my (past) solid conviction that the homeless should use their energies and problem solving abilities to “get a job – get a life”. Apparently, more often than I would like to think, there are those who truly fall outside the systems of our society through no fault of their own, especially children. It is not just about money, food and shelter. Just as important (especially to the young) are acceptance, opportunities, self-esteem and purpose.
Written with honesty and without self pity, this story of Murray’s childhood relates the pain of what drugs will do to a family, how she found friendship and love in unlikely and dangerous situations, and the failure of society to protect and nourish needy children. Still, I don’t believe this writing was meant to be a guilt trip for the fortunate. It was focused on pain, trauma, love, healing and empowerment and could apply to anyone. Time and again, it is clear in this memoir of loneliness and need that so little human kindness can mean so much.
This book should be suggested/required reading for all high school students. Based on how this book has pushed my thinking forward, I am giving it a high rating.
Liz's mother left for another man, and Liz remained with her father. When conditions forced him to move to a shelter, Liz entered the foster care system, living in a group home for a while. She was then returned to her mother's custody, but soon began skipping school again and eventually left home to live on her own. She stayed the night with friends or slept on the subway. She became involved in an unhealthy relationship, and stayed in it too long simply for the perceived security. Shortly after her mother died from AIDS, Liz "hit bottom" and began working to get her own life together, attending an alternative high school and obtaining her degree in just two years. She also obtained a prestigious New York Times scholarship that enabled her to pursue a university degree.
However, despite a compelling story, the writing was just average, and repetitive in parts. Sometimes the emotions were raw and hit hard; at other times I failed to connect even when I felt I should. Because it's a true story, it was a difficult read. I know there are thousands like Liz facing similarly extreme hardship, who will never be able to turn their lives around. While Liz's perseverance was amazing, what most impressed me was her ability to love, accept, and forgive those who wronged her. There's a lesson in that for all of us.
In Homeless to Harvard, the reason that Liz didn't go to school was because she didn't feel right in leaving her mother, who had AIDS, alone. In Breaking Night, most of the time that she cut school, she did it to hang out with her friends. She didn't go to school because she just didn't feel like it. Not cool, especially if you consider that her older sister, who grew up in the exact same environment, did persevere and ended up graduating high school. Besides all the crap that her sister went through, she decided to get up every day and keep going and not using pathetic excuses to not go. That right there is inspiring.
Liz Murray was just not sympathetic throughout most of the book. It was her decision to leave the house that she was living in, her decision to only visit her AIDS-stricken mom once after she left, her decision not to go back to the apartment her sister was living in once everything became to much. Maybe my non-sympathetic thoughts come from the fact that while I was in high school, my family was homeless for a while and I was shuffled from various family members' houses. Regardless of that, I graduated high school with honors and went on to college with minimal complaints. So, I just don't see what the huge deal is with having a tough home life and not going to school. She had the choice to attend school at first, she chose not to take it.
But again, once Liz actually enrolled in the alternative high school, Breaking Night started getting better. It was inspirational that she actually enrolled in school because it would've been easier to say "Screw it!" She worked extremely hard in trying to cram all of her high school credits into two years. However, the most inspirational thing for me was the number of people who helped her once her article appeared in The New York Times. These strangers capacity to be empathetic and help a complete stranger was just mesmerizing and heartwarming for me.
In the end, I thought that Breaking Night was just okay. Not sure if I would recommend it. I do, however, highly recommend the movie. It was amazing.
I selected this early reviewer book hoping to find some insight into why the author became the accomplished person she is, while so many others never make it. I wasn’t disappointed. If you are considering reading it for the same reason, leave any value judgments of her parents behind and try to see them from the same perspective that she does. It is this perspective that makes the book so compelling.
In a quickly moving story, Murray writes as an adult who is looking back on her childhood. She develops her story as a young girl who is at once wise beyond her years and innocent in her youth. “Drugs were like a wrecking ball tearing through our family and … I couldn’t help but feel that Ma and Daddy were the ones that needed protecting. I felt like it was my job to keep them safe.” (p. 51).
Liz Murray forces me to look at my own values, which is one of the best things any book can do. I’d recommend it as required reading for high school freshmen everywhere, book clubs who want a real discussion about realistic themes, and any reader who wants a lot to consider after putting the book down.
I'm not sure where Murray found the will to dig deep and survive her daily life, much less to seek out an alternative school as a late teen, set goals and reach them, but she is to be admired for what she survived, but mostly by the deep need to go beyond survival and live.
I must say, though, while I read an uncorrected proof, I struggled with a couple of things very early on. On page 1 of the prologue, Murray's mother had brown eyes and the author has her grandmother's "rich yellow-green" eyes, but on page 8 of Chapter 1, her mother was described as having "piercing amber eyes."
Then, on page 7 of Chapter 1, Murray's paternal grandmother worked two jobs to put her "only child" through Catholic schools, yet on page 26 of the same chapter, "Daddy's mom and siblings"--wait, what?
This is a memoir, so the story may not be totally accurate, but the color of one's mother's eyes and the father's siblings showing up only pages after he is listed as an only child? These are things that left me questioning the rest of the book.
Still, I was left wanting more. Will have to do some research on Murray to find out where her life went once she got to Harvard. How did she pay for it (scholarships received from NYTimes was just not enough) and how did she live? What did she study? Where is she now?
Ultimately, I think that Murray would be a very interesting individual to meet in person, but I did not care for her memoir.
Overall, I enjoyed hearing about how Murray overcame the many obstacles in her childhood; she became self-sufficient at a young age and took on responsibilities of which other children would never become aware. Her story is compelling in that just when you think Murray is going to get a break and her path is going to become smoother, something else happens or she makes a bone-headed decision.
What I would have liked to have more of in the story is more emotional detail behind some of Murray’s decisions. I never truly understood why she stuck with Carlos for so long; nor did I understand why she didn’t want to live with her sister and Brick in a semi-stable household. I also didn’t fully grasp the ending of the novel; all of a sudden, she needed, wanted, to go to Harvard; it seemed very rushed to me.
It’s a memoir worth reading, although not as poignant or memorable as, say, The Glass Castle.
I loved the book except for the ending. Liz was waiting for her letter to find out whether she was accepted or rejected from Harvard. Right when she was to get the letter, the book abruptly ended. Other than the ending, I cannot recommend this memoir highly enough. What an incredible story!
However, I'm thrilled that Ms. Murray
by Liz Murray
Breaking Night is a memoir that pulls you in at page one, and never let’s you go. As a parent, this was an emotionally challenging read for me. I was shocked as I read of Liz’s childhood.
A childhood consisting of constant hunger pains that Liz and her sister
At a very young age Liz became the caretaker of the family, she did everything she could to keep her dysfunctional family together. Liz spent many school nights waiting up for her mother’s safe return from her late night drug buys at the local bar. She’d skip school and stay home to take care of her parents. It was easier for Liz when she finally quit school all together. She’d been subjected to the kids cruel jokes and comments because of her lice infested hair, and dirty clothing. She was the perfect target for ridicule.
When the state discovers that Liz has quit school, she is then forced to go live in a group home. Her parents drug addiction has torn their family apart. Liz’s mom has left to go live with another man. What Liz once called home doesn’t exist anymore. She runs away from her group home, and at the age of fifteen ends up homeless and living on the streets.
When Liz decides that she must to take control of her own life, she goes back to high school and completes four years of high school into two years time. The subway stations and warm hallways where she sleeps, are now where she studies and completes her homework assignments. Liz enters and wins a New York Times Scholarship and ends up in the Ivy League.
This memoir is an uplifting and unforgettable read. Liz is literally dumped into the world on her own, where she’s able to score food, earn money, find a warm place to sleep, and finally, finish school and end up at Harvard. I found myself unable to put this book down, and was thrilled when Liz made a place for herself in this world. This is an outstanding memoir.
Not only were her parents addicted, they were mentally ill, especially her mother who was schizophrenic (and also legally blind). Her father was serving time in prison when Liz was born. Her mother died of AIDS when Liz was 16. Her father was eventually diagnosed with the same disease.
It is hard to imagine how Liz managed to keep going in spite of all of this, but some how she does and although surprisingly little is mentioned of her sister, just two years older, who grew up along with her in that household, apparently her sister also turned out well in the end. There was no alliance between them that could have helped, and Murray explains that Lisa was always hostile toward her and that they became competitors for the very few resources (food, love, everything) that they had.
After her mother died Murray says, “…without Ma to connect us, Daddy, Lisa, and I spun out of one another’s orbits and made independent lives of our own that barely even touched.
Her homeless period explains the title, as "breaking night" refers to staying up through sunrise. She did this often with the group of friends she managed to surround herself with, so she could pretend she really wasn't homeless at all.
This is a compelling story of the "against all odds" variety, well written and very bleak. But it does end hopefully like every dawn after night.