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Ten-year-old Jamie Matthews has just moved to the Lake District with his Dad and his teenage sister, Jasmine for a "Fresh New Start." Five years ago his sister's twin, Rose, was blown up by a terrorist bomb. His parents are wrecked by their grief, Jasmine turns to piercing, pink hair, and stops eating. The family falls apart. But Jamie hasn't cried in all that time. To him Rose is just a distant memory. Jamie is far more interested in his cat, Roger, his birthday Spiderman T-shirt, and in keeping his new friend Sunya a secret from his dad. And in his deep longing and unshakeable belief that his Mum will come back to the family she walked out on months ago. When he sees a TV ad for a talent show, he feels certain that this will change everything and bring them all back together once and for all.… (more)
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== The idea ==
Ten year old Jamie Matthews has moved to the Lake District with his dad and older sister, Jas, for a fresh start. Unfortunately, it quickly becomes clear to Jamie that this fresh start is rather similar to their old life: his dead sister’s ashes dominate the mantelpiece and empty bottles clink dismally in the bin. Jamie doesn’t even remember Rose, but she’s still tearing his family apart. Then a TV advertisement catches his eye. Could this be the way to fix everything?
== The result ==
The plotline is so familiar one could almost tick off the elements: a broken family, a child who is bullied at school, useless teachers, a ‘new start’ that isn’t, an idea that will fix things – except it won’t. The difference between this and countless other YA offerings is the sheer vigour in Jamie’s voice.
Jamie is a delightful narrator. His energy and naivety mean that however sinister the ideas he is exposed to, his reactions prompted a smile from me. His blunt statement that ‘Muslims blew up my sister’ is startling but understandable. (The same statement voiced by his father is chilling.) Jamie’s tentative friendship with young Sunya develops in fits and starts as he tries to reconcile his father’s blind hatred with the truth that’s sat next to him, offering him a blu-tac ring.
As the story develops Jamie necessarily matures and begins to consider a way forward that recognises what he has as well as what he has lost. In this way, he becomes a positive role model for teen readers.
== My thoughts ==
Writing from the perspective of a ten year old is a challenge and some of Jamie’s ideas and actions could easily seem ridiculous in a child who is approaching secondary school age. Suspending belief is probably easier for me as I do not have children, but I found Jamie generally convincing as a narrator; he pursued his interests and was creative in trying to attain his desires. Pitcher hints towards darker motives in other characters while only denting Jamie’s innocence. His desire to do the right thing, and to know what the right thing was, meant he was likeable throughout. The first person narration helps to pull you into his world view.
I found his attitude towards his dead sister Rose was one of the most refreshing elements of the book. Jamie doesn’t remember her at all and is very matter of fact about her death and dismemberment: he knows exactly which pieces of her were burned and which were buried. It is clear that Jamie is not callous, merely young, and it is only his later reaction to a sad event which helps him to understand why the rest of his family have found it so hard to say goodbye to his dead sister. I thought that the sad event seemed a little forced as it came out of nowhere and provided a rather obvious device to move Jamie’s understanding of grief forward. That said, it is not an unrealistic development at all and does not detract from an otherwise convincing plotline.
I liked the fact that the events of the book were realistic. It is quite clear from the first chapter that Jamie’s hopes are likely to go unrewarded and I thought the ending was suitably true-to-life without being too dark. I don’t cry when reading books or watching films but I can see that many readers might be brought to tears by Jamie’s situation, not even because it’s so unusual, but just because the emotions are clearly so raw for all the family members.
Jamie’s relationship with his surviving sister is one of the most touching elements of the book. Abandoned by her heartbroken mother to cope with her younger sibling, drunken dad and memories of her twin, Jas does a mostly-great job, but Pitcher includes little details that emphasise how much she is struggling. Sometimes aware of these and sometimes not, Jamie often inadvertently brings her tears of laughter and sadness. I liked the way they looked out for each other and yet sometimes annoyed each other. I didn’t feel that the relationship ever became too ‘sweet’ to be convincing.
There are a range of other characters, all of whom I found to be convincing and all of whom added to the story in some way.
The background (such as how Rose died) is alluded to when necessary and there is a very short ‘story’ from Jas’ perspective at the end of the book which neatly adds a different viewpoint and enriches what has gone before. I liked that most of the action took place in the present as it made the story easier to read and I felt more involved in the characters’ lives.
== Conclusions ==
‘My sister lives on the Mantelpiece’ is tender without being overly sentimental and explores big themes (grief, loss, prejudice) in a way that is comprehensible for young adult readers. The main character is sensitive but sufficiently ‘boy-friendly’ (he’s into football and pulling pranks) to interest boys and girls. The storyline is fairly typical for YA fiction but is well written and usually convincing. As an adult reader, I still enjoyed this, especially as the sad story is often imbued with a wonderfully comic undertone due to the narrator’s innocent perspective. I think it is well worth the £6.99 cover price.
Prefer to hear it aloud? The audio version is read by David Tennant for £14.99.
Jamie’s older sister, Rose, died in a terrorist bomb 5 years ago. But his parents can’t let her go; his mother has left to live with another man (a fellow grieving relative whom she met at the support
I really didn’t want to like this book. There are just too many of this type of thing around nowadays – children having to find their own way in the world because their parents are non-functional for one reason or another. And yes, the children’s voices are funny and sweet and vulnerable; and yes, the author offers us some insight into the nature of love and life and our responsibilities to our children and ourselves. But it all just seems a bit hackneyed, and I really don’t like having my heart strings tugged just so that some author and publisher can make money out of me.
BUT ... this book is actually well written. Jamie’s voice comes off the page in a most natural manner, and the author has thought up some wonderfully descriptive metaphors and similes to explain the emptiness in the heart of a child who has been abandoned by his parents. Here’s one I particularly liked, used to describe Jamie’s mother speaking – “Her words sounded empty, as if they were written with a very thin pencil on a big piece of paper and there was too much space inside all the letters”.
I read this book very quickly – in less than a day. I should warn you that the ending is sad. Yes, I did have a lump in my throat when reading it, and yes, I did have to pause for a while to let it sink in before I could go on with my day. Which is quite a tribute to the author’s skill in drawing me into her world – or rather, Jamie’s world.
This book warrants rave reviews. It’s an easy yet entertaining read that thoroughly explores Muslim/non-Muslim relations, bullying, grief, alcoholism and family brokenness whilst never straying into preachy-ness, stock characters or unrealistically rosy (mind the pun) endings. It’s absolutely believable, memorable and, at times, heart breaking.
As a reader who is perhaps over sensitive to depictions and explorations of ideology and religion in children and young adult’s literature I can only commend Pitcher’s sensitive portrayal of Tom’s young Muslim friend Sunya, and his growing understanding of the significance of her faith alongside his own vaguely Christian background.
I really enjoyed this touching story of ten-year-old Jamie, desperately seeking the love of his alcoholic father and absent mother. Neither parent is coping well with life after the loss of their third child, a twin daughter, Rose, who was killed five years
When Dad gets a job in the Lake District, they move from London, and Jamie has the added trauma of settling into a new school. Only Sunja pays him any attention, but she is a Muslim and "Muslims killed my daughter", as Dad constantly reminds him. Jamie is torn between loyalty to Dad and his friendship with Sunja.
I listened to the Audible version of this book, read with feeling by David Tennant. I was totally drawn in to Jamie's life and struggles and his gradual understanding of the dynamics of his traumatised family.
I think adults and teens would probably approach this book from different view points but it is an excellent read for both.
Highly recommended and I look forward to Anabel Pitcher's next book.
Jamie's sister Rose died in a terrorist attack when he was five. Now five years later, Jamie's family is still suffering and attempting to not fall completely apart - attempting, but not doing so well. His mom took off with a man from her support group, his dad reached for the bottle and moved Jamie and his sister Jasmine to the country to get away from the Muslims who his father blames for Rose's death. Jamie has been raised to hate all Muslims, but when his only friend at school is a girl named Sunya, Jamie is torn between honoring his sister and respecting his father, or doing what he thinks is right.
As you can see, there are very adult themes throughout the novel: death and racism being at the forefront. When I say this I do not support any type of book censorship, but I feel like My Sister Lives on the Mantelpiece is a novel for teens and adults, even though it is told from a middle grade point of view. By all means, give it to your middle grader, but what I am saying is that the subtleties can be better appreciated by an older reader. I guess another way of saying this is that even though it is technically a middle grade novel, readers of all ages can appreciate it.
I really liked how this book was written we really get inside Jamie’s head and his thought process and the fighting between what his dad believes and what Jamie feels especially towards Sunya. Is Jamie naïve yes of course, he is 10 years old, is it wonderful to see that he doesn’t feel the same antagonism towards Muslims that his dad does yes it is, but the battle to try and understand everyone is really at the heart of this book. To understand why his Mum left, why his dad can’t let Rose go, and why it isn’t ok to like Sunya.
There are parts of this book that will pull at your heart string especially in the end, sometimes the answers you seek are not the ones you really want and when Jamie’s eyes are opened about his parents it isn’t always an easy pill to swallow. I think this is an important book about race relations, grief and family and that just because your parents feel one way doesn’t mean you have to feel the same way! This book really touched my heart by the end it was a little slow beginning but once you start to see who Jamie is and what he goes through you will be hooked just as I was.
Now the audio production this is narrated by, David Tennant Yes that David Tennant and even with his thick Scottish brogue I had a hard time whenever he said Rose (my fellow Whovians will understand this) but once I got over it and just concentrated on him being Jamie I was good to go. But I do wonder if this book affected me more because it was David’s voice? No, I think I still would have had the emotional connection to Jamie even though in my head he looked like a young David!
I think this is a book for advanced middle grade readers, because it deals with death, an alcoholic parent divorce, terrorism, race relations , religious differences, bullying wow now that I look at that list this book covers a lot of ground and that’s what makes it a must read.
4 Stars
A powerful and tender tale.
First thing wrong: Rose's parents can't agree on whether to bury her in a cemetary or have her
It is now 5 years later. Jamie's parents are recently separated, their mother moving out and (Second thing wrong) having no contact with her children. Their father is an alcoholic and spends most days in bed. (Third thing wrong-where do they get money to live?)
As Jamie starts the school year in a new school, he becomes friends with a sweet Muslim girl, Sunya, who has her own school issues because she wears a hajib. However, Jamie feels guilty because his father hates Muslims, due to the terrorist attack that took the life of his daughter.
Jamie is the narrator of this tale. (Fourth thing wrong-the voice in the book sounds like a girl.) There's more wrong that I haven't listed. The more I think about it, the less I like it.
The book tells about how the main character Jamie copes with moving to a new place with his father and sister (his mother walked out on them), how he made friends with a girl he was supposed to hate, and how he eventually understands death. I did not realize that the sister died in a tragic event and that the book covers some very painful truths, so I was surprised but impressed when I read these.
This will be a quick read because it's hard to put down.
This could have been a depressing book, but it is told from Jamie’s point of view and his innocence and naivety give it a touch of gentle humour. The relationship between Jamie and Jas is a highlight – they look out for each other whilst still indulging in normal sibling annoying behaviour.
Jamie is a wonderful character. The book is written in the first person, and what Jamie tells us, the
Unusually for me, I knew as soon as I started reading this book that I would love it. It's totally uncompromising, and Jamie is quite blunt about what happened to Rose, as kids often are. It kept my interest from start to finish and I loved picking it up to read it.
This is one of the best young adult novels I have read, and it is definitely a book that adults can read and enjoy too. I look forward to seeing what Annabel Pitcher does next, as she is an author to watch in the future.
This is a story of a family split apart, told from the perspective of the younger brother of twin sisters, one of whom is killed in
Jaime was too young to remember his sister. He is now forced to act older than his ten years of age. His mother leaves he, his sister and father and abandons them for another man. Spending his days drinking obsessively, Jamie's father has little desire to spend attention on his two remaining children.
Obsessed with grief regarding the killing of his daughter, Jaime's father keeps her ashes in a shrine-like atmosphere on the mantle. As Jamie and his sister are moved to a new school, forced to walk when their father cannot make it out of bed. In addition, Jamie is terribly bullied and cannot look to his remaining parent for any emotional support.
Jaime finds one friend, a young girl who happens to be of the Muslim faith. She is the lone person in school who tries to learn about him and who cares.
This is a good book, but not a great book. The author writes well, but she packed so much into the story. Each event that happened to Jamie was piled on one after another and another.
Jaime's sister is killed
His mother leaves
His father drinks his days and nights away
Jaime attends a new school where he is bullied
Jamie happens to find one friend who happens to be of the same faith as the terrorist that killed his sister
and then there is a situation with a pet.....
All of these events were too much to pack into one book.