We Are On Our Own: A Memoir

by Miriam Katin

Hardcover, 2006

Status

Available

Call number

940.5318092

Collection

Publication

Drawn and Quarterly (2006), Edition: 1st Hardcover Ed, 136 pages

Description

"A stunning memoir of a mother and daughter's survival in WWII and their subsequent lifelong struggle with faith. In this captivating and elegantly illustrated graphic memoir, Miriam Katin retells the story of her and her mother's escape on foot from the Nazi invasion of Budapest. With her father off fighting for the Hungarian army and the German troops quickly approaching, Katin and her mother are forced to flee to the countryside after faking their deaths. Leaving behind all of their belongings and loved ones, and unable to tell anyone of their whereabouts, they disguise themselves as a peasant woman and her illegitimate child, while literally staying a few steps ahead of the German soldiers. We Are on Our Own is a woman's attempt to rebuild her earliest childhood trauma in order to come to an understanding of her lifelong questioning of faith. Katin's faith is shaken as she wonders how God could create and tolerate such a wretched world, a world of fear and hiding, bargaining and theft, betrayal and abuse. The complex and horrific experiences on the run are difficult for a child to understand, and as a child, Katin sees them with the simple longing, sadness, and curiosity she feels when her dog disappears or a stranger makes her mother cry" --… (more)

User reviews

LibraryThing member savageknight
Wow. Miriam brings us into the past and we see her as a child escaping WWII with her mother while trying to keep a hold onto their faith amidst death and destruction. Very poignant and powerful story told in a simple manner as seen through the eyes of a child. Considering the untold numbers who
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perished in the war, the fact that there are those who managed to escape and start a new life is beyond miraculous. One hopes that seeing what they went through could perhaps curb humanity's bloodlust... maybe someday it will... and books like this will serve as a reminder of the pain of innocence lost.
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LibraryThing member labfs39
I am new to graphic books and, to be honest, a bit leery. In a surprising (to me) discovery, this is a book I cannot image being told in any other format. Miriam Katin is truly able to convey a thousand words in key frames.

In 1944, Miriam is a bright and happy child living in Budapest with her
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mother and her dog Rexy. Her father, a dimly remembered figure, is away at the front. Miriam's mother, Esther, worries about the increasing restrictions on Jews, but Miriam's too young to understand the adults' fears. But when her dog is taken away and then they themselves have to move, Miriam struggles to make sense of her world and links their situation to her early lessons about God, often in a very literal way. On the run and relying on the protection of strangers, Miriam and Esther face loneliness, hunger, and fear over and over again during the next year. Finally the war ends, but it is still months before their journey ends.

The sketches in the book are mostly in black and white. Interspersed throughout, however, are a few pages in color. Most of these pages depict Miriam's perspective on her childhood as an adult, now with a child of her own. I found this juxtaposition to be particularly effective and easy to follow because of the use of color. The evolution of the child Miriam's concept of God during this horrible year is mirrored in the adult Miriam's struggles with religion and what she will teach her son. I found this strand of the story to be an important link between past and present, and representative of the effects of trauma on Miriam as an adult.

Miriam's memoir is also the story of her mother's bravery. The drawings of Esther portray a mother desperately trying to keep her daughter safe and, perhaps even harder, innocent. Visually seeing Esther's grief and despair, I leaped immediately to an emotional response, without needing to have it described in words. In a way her grief is beyond words. For me, this was the hardest part of the book to experience and the most beautiful.

I strongly recommend this book, even if you are not a voracious graphic novel reader.
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LibraryThing member Tanglewood
We Are On Our Own is Miriam Katin's account of how she and her mother had to flee from the Nazis in Budapest and seek a safe haven. The events shift from those of her childhood to her present to show some of the long term effects. It's the small details like a child losing her dog that make this
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memoir standout.The illustrations were also very interesting, with the art style shifting to reflect different shifts in the plot.
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LibraryThing member verenka
Very sad and touching story about a mother and her little daughter who has to go into hiding during world war two. the art is very dark and dramatic and adds to the oppresive feel of the story. I very much recommend it.
LibraryThing member LauraBrook
This powerful and touching memoir of the author and her mother's time (1944-1945) surviving through the last of WWII in Hungary, and with a few glimpses into her modern life in NYC, was riveting. The illustrations only add to the dark, confusing time that was the end of the war in Europe. At turns
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sad, hopeful, harrowing, and desperate, this could only be true. Once I picked it up I couldn't put it down.
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LibraryThing member LibroLindsay
This memoir could have been more than it was. Overall, the WWII part of the story was fairly well crafted, and the late 60s-early 70s part had potential, but since the more modern scenes were fairly sparse and not very eloquent, it almost detracted from the story rather than enhance it. The story
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seemed like it had a destination, most prominently in reflecting upon religion in a time of crisis, but instead of rounding out its focus, it rather hastily wrapped up the themes and called it a day. I would have been willing to follow the grown Lisa as she coped with the traumas of her childhood amid her fortunate adulthood--I am rather bewildered that Katin didn't take it further in that direction. Ah well.
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LibraryThing member bmanglass
We are on Our Own tells the story of a Jewish mother and child during World War II who, forced to flee their home in Budapest, struggle to survive and eventually reunite with their family. The plot and dialogue are elliptical, just giving you the edges of the big picture of the events surrounding
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our main characters. What the text elides, the chaotic and rich pencil illustrations eagerly fill in, telling a story that is as much an emotional portrait as it is historical one. Katin's specific emphasis on faith (and the questioning thereof) provides a meaningful thematic throughline.
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Awards

Original language

English

Original publication date

2006-05-16

Physical description

136 p.; 8.17 inches

ISBN

1896597203 / 9781896597201
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